If your network is hosted externally (on Ning.com in particular), how do you monitor the traffic? Below is what I do, in particular to assess the quality of the PPC traffic from Yahoo:
All paid clicks go through a redirect; the redirect server is hosted internally so I can track time stamp, browser, keyword, campaign ID, and in particular the referral
All pages on the external network have a beacon (clear gif) hosted on the internal server (same as the server used for the ridirect)
The beacon provides information about visit paths, while the redirect provides information about the original referral domain
I reconciliate the beacon with the redirect data, to assign conversions (or lack of) to specific keywords and referral domains (to detect and block domains with no conversion)
Are you using a different methodology? Maybe something simpler?